It is up to a couple to keep their relationship strong and happy, as a girl you cannot always blame the guy for not making an effort, you also have to put in extra effort to make sure you are doing everything to keep your boyfriend happy. There are so many cute things to do for your boyfriend which are easy very inexpensive and yet romantic that your boyfriend will appreciate. Below we will discuss a few of the many things you can do for your boyfriend to make him feel important.
- Reach out with music
Music can prove to help you make a very romantic gesture to your boyfriend. You can go about it in two ways. You can record a song for him, a song perhaps which is perhaps significant to both of you. However, if you are not very confident then make him a mix tape with the most romantic songs. It is not at all expensive and it will be a very romantic gesture.
If you are thinking of recording a song then you can do it on your phone at your own leisure then transfer the song into a CD and present it to him. Otherwise you can also send it to him directly using Bluetooth and ask him to listen to it when he is alone. This is one of the many romantic things to do for your boyfriend. If you are planning to make him a mix tape, then first prepare your list and then just put the songs in a CD, decorate the cover and give it to him with a small note.
How many times have we heard the phrase a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach? This is actually true; every guy will love it if you cook him a meal. This does not always have to an elaborate three course meal with a dessert. It can be a simple item which is very basic to prepare. As long as you prepare the meal it will be appreciated by him. If you are not a confident cook or are trying it out for the first time then you can opt for one of the simple items like:
- Sandwiches- These are so simple and easy to make, you can use the toaster for the bread and the filling can be mayonnaise with chicken and coleslaw, you can go for vegetarian sandwiches too with cucumber and tomatoes.
- Spaghetti- This is also very easily prepared, you boil the spaghetti and then add the different sauces and bits of chicken, shrimp or vegetables to add an extra flavor.
- Burgers- preparing burgers are very easy and they almost like sandwiches, so if you your boyfriend is more a fast food person you can make burgers for him.
- Bake a cake – This is a very sweet gesture where you can bake a cake on his birthday or on your anniversary. It can be a plain butter cake with frosting or even a flavored cake. You simply need an oven and a bit of practice to pull it off.
- Pasta- Pasta is almost like Spaghetti and it tastes very tasty so you can go in for that as well.
However if you are a good cook you can go in for more complex dishes, you can perhaps try out sushi, or a more complex dessert like a meringue or even a shrimp salad. Items like Chicken with mustard cream sauce, beef and bean burritos and homemade special pizzas will certainly enhance his palate and make him feel extremely loved. You can look up more recipes in cooking books and please your man.
Many of you may not be very gifted in matters of cooking or even be confident of your voice. There is something else you can look into. For all those of you who are extremely creative and want to apply your creativity to your present then there are a lot of cool things you can do. These things may need more time than the options previously stated but if you are an artistic person then it should feel like too much of a burden to you. There are basic things you can get involved in as far as art is concerned. You can go in for:
- Cards –
You can make beautiful cards with paper and you can use a lot of colors to draw on it and you can put a romantic message in it. Or you can even make it more personal by sticking pictures of you and your boyfriend on it.
- Charts or Poster-
You can even make huge posters made from a huge sheet of paper where you can put several pictures depicting a sequence or it can be in random order. It can be for your anniversary or his birthday. He can put it up in his room and think of you every time he sees it.
- Dictionary –
This is a very new and innovative concept but it will require a lot of time and thinking. However if you can pull it off it will be a piece of art and will be extremely special for your boyfriend. Here you associate every alphabet with your relationship. Example: You can associate “X” with all your previous relationships, “Y” with you and talk about your boyfriend, “B” with birthdays and so.
- Calendar –
You can even make him a calendar marking all the important dates related to your relationship on it. It is a cheeky way to make sure he never forgets an anniversary or birthday. Also it is a sweet gesture and will bring a smile on his face.
- Videos –
If you are not sure if you can pull of an artistic piece to its perfection or you don’t have so much time there is a simpler way. If you simply want to make your work easier you can make him a collage of all your most memorable memories by making a video. There are so many apps which can assist you and it will be possible for you to show your love as well.
- Take interest
There are many nice things which actually do not take any time or extra effort. You simply have to take interest in his life. Amy times we accuse boys of not paying attention to us. Perhaps we should also take more interest in their lives and the things they love.
If you have a sporty boyfriend then it will do you good to actually try to learn the games he likes. You can also get him tickets to a game or even go along with him to enjoy some special alone time with him. It will mean a lot to your boyfriend it you actually take a genuine interest in his life. Your boyfriend will feel even more attracted to you if you reach out and show a different side to him.
If your boyfriend is a gamer then play games with him, research about the games he likes so you can strike a conversation with him about his favorite games or even buy him his favorite game. If you start playing you may even realize you actually find it fun. This will really cement your relationship and bring you two closer than before. Perhaps even he will take a keen interest in your life and what you love to do.
- Keep things fun
Usually what kills a relationship is the lack of enjoyment and laughter. Every one irrespective of guy or girl likes to have fun and enjoy them. You should work to keep things interesting. There are several ways you can keep your relationship alive. If things are getting boring in your relationship and you feel distance increasing in your relationship, setting up a treasure hunt is a one of the sweet things. A treasure hunt involves you hiding small gifts in different places and providing him with clues to get them. You can do this for his birthday or just surprise him one day. This will really get him excited and is sure to make him feel special.
Joining an activity together where you both can work and get closer is also a very sweet thing to do, if your man likes to work for others you can sign him up for a cause and even better you can work with him. You guys could also work out together, perhaps join the same gym. If you are looking to really reinvent your relationship you can go back to the good times. Take him back to the places where your love bloomed; remind him of the beautiful memories. Show him that old necklace he had gifted you. All those old pictures when you both looked so different. If you make a truthful attempt you and your boyfriend will be the happy than ever before.