Flirting can come naturally to some while others really struggle to embrace the task. Flirting can however be learnt and there are very easy steps which if followed can help you to grasp on how to flirt with your boyfriend. Some find it easier to flirt through text than in person because the person is not in front of them. One basic thing to understand is do not give the impression that you are the only one who flirts because then your boyfriend may take you for granted.
- Use a lot of smiley’s and nicknames for your sweet lover
If you want to flirt with your boyfriend over text then using smiley’s and nicknames is the best way. It is a sweet and playful way to flirt keeping the conversation fun and exciting.
- Compliment him and tell him you missed him
It is a very sweet gesture if you tell him you were missing him because it makes him feel more connected to you. Also complimenting your boyfriend will also make him feel loved and will make him feel a lot of affection towards you.
- Don’t try too hard or act desperate
Many girls make the mistake of misinterpreting the art of flirting. You should never act desperate or try too hard. Your boyfriend will never reciprocate if you try too hard.
- Keep it short
Text messages should never be too lengthy it is best to keep it short and sweet. Flirting loses its essence if you send a three page long text. Your boyfriend probably won’t even read all the way through. It is better to keep the text short because he will read the text and appreciate it.
- Don’t be clingy
The biggest mistake in flirting that most girls make is by acting too clingy. If you are constantly breathing down his neck then you won’t get a very good response. It is much better to play hard to get then give it all in one go.
- Be discreet yet tempt him
Text messages mean that you are not physically present in front of your boyfriend, it is therefore much easier to make him feel tempted and tease him too a great extent. If you play your cards right then you can even get him to really feel aroused towards you and make him seriously craved for you. Remember to be discreet do not give it up in one goes, let his excitement build up so that he is wrapped up around you.
- Be hot and cold
Let’s play hot and cold, lead him on then suddenly go cold, always keep him guessing and let him be attracted towards you. Always let him have the impression that he needs you more than you need him.